When I initially decided to pursue an MBA, it was because I wanted better business skills. But after a number of my personal mentors challenged me to view my MBA first as a networking event, I began to change my paradigm. Was it true that I would forget most of the frameworks and formulas but that my contacts list would be my greatest career resource for life? For me, that was a tough pill to swallow and it definitely went down slowly. But here’s what I saw over the past year:
- The hiring process is imperfect despite all the best practices known to man. You’ll see top-rate students get bypassed without really understanding why.
- Being likeable, interesting and genuine adds a lot to a job candidate’s appeal. Those lacking these traits have a much more difficult time finding jobs.
- Failing to befriend the right people can really stand in your way of getting where you want to be. These people might be faculty members, administrators, classmates, and alumni.
- People don’t do favors for you if you seek only to exploit a relationship in order to further your career. MBA’s do this all the time and it is incredibly obvious and painfully inappropriate.
- Building relationships with people can open up a world of opportunity.
- You really do make some of your best friends during the program.
As I review this list, I really don’t see anything outside of common sense; and yet, I think if you surveyed my class about how their views have changed over the course of the program, nearly all would report seeing significantly more value in effective networking than they did a year ago. This is because so many of us have seen the power of networking come to life (or work to our defeat) as we’ve run the proverbial gauntlet searching for internships.
So here’s what I plan to do to capitalize on these observations, and while I’ve already been trying to do some of this, I am recommitted for the year ahead:
- I will spend as much time as I can reaching out and getting to know people. I expect this to require effort and to take me outside of my comfort zone.
- I will be genuinely interested in my classmates, my professors, administrators, and alumni. I will seek to develop lasting relationships with these individuals.
- I will maintain relationships with past friends, acquaintances, and associates.
- I will strive to develop deeper relationships with my classmates.
-Merritt Aho, Marketing, Class of 2011